Planning a wedding comes with excitement, questions, and…a whole lot of decisions. And while we’ve spent years helping couples navigate timelines, music choices, vendors, budgets, and all the little details that make a wedding feel magical, one question kept popping up again and again:
“Do you have all of this in one place?”
That is exactly why we created The Wedding Duo Membership – a calm, supportive, organized home for all the tools, playlists, templates, and guidance couples need throughout the planning journey. If you’ve seen us mention the membership on social media or heard us reference it on the podcast and wondered whether it’s right for you, this deep dive is for you.
Today on the podcast, we’re breaking down why we built it, what’s inside, and how this wedding planning membership can simplify your entire engagement, from the first checklist to the last dance.
Before there was a full membership, there was one tiny digital product: The Music Planner PDF.
It was a simple $30 download with curated song suggestions for moments like the bride’s entrance, parent dances, and special ceremony transitions. We created it almost on a whim…and were shocked to see that couples downloaded it month after month, year after year.
But one request kept coming in:
“Can we have these as actual Spotify playlists?”
Couples didn’t just want lists, they wanted to listen. They wanted to compare versions. They wanted inspiration on-the-go during car rides, commutes, road trips, planning nights, and even while cooking dinner.
That simple request became the spark.
The playlists became the foundation.
But the membership turned into so much more.
If you’ve ever wandered into a public wedding Facebook group, or dipped a toe into a Reddit wedding forum, you already know how quickly a simple question can turn into a pile-on. What should be a space for support often becomes a minefield of unsolicited opinions, judgment, and “my way is the only right way” advice. We started seeing couples say they were afraid to ask questions because of how harsh the responses could be. And honestly? Planning a wedding is emotional enough without worrying about internet strangers tearing you down.
That’s one of the biggest reasons the membership was born. We wanted to create a space that felt safe, calm, and genuinely helpful. Something the internet didn’t already offer. Inside the membership, couples get to ask real questions and get real answers without fear of criticism. They can share ideas, troubleshoot challenges, and celebrate wins alongside other engaged couples who are in the same season. Most importantly, it’s a place where every style, budget, and approach is welcome. There is no “right” or “wrong” way to plan a wedding—only your way—and the membership was designed to honor that from day one.
Inside the membership, couples also get access to live weekly meetups, our version of a wedding support group + planning workshop + Q&A + celebration hour rolled into one.
These aren’t passive lives where you’re just commenting in a chat. They’re interactive Zoom-style hangouts where you can:
Couples often tell us: “I didn’t even know I didn’t know that.” And that’s why these meetups are so powerful! They fill in the gaps you can’t see yet. We’ve even had couples attend right up until the week of their wedding, using the meetups as the final pep talk before their big day.
While the community side gives support, the module side gives structure. Each module covers a core planning category and includes:
One of the things we love most about the membership is that it meets couples exactly where they are. Some join the moment they get engaged and use it as a roadmap throughout their planning year. Others jump in a few months before the wedding because they want help polishing the timeline, organizing vendors, or choosing the perfect entrance song. And plenty of couples join simply because they want access to our curated playlists, templates, or Amazon and Etsy shopping lists.
There’s no pressure to use everything at once. You can browse modules whenever you’re ready, ask questions the moment something feels confusing, and lean on the community during those overwhelming stretches when planning feels like too much. And because there’s no long-term commitment, you’re free to stay for as long as it genuinely supports you, whether that’s six weeks or six months.
If you’ve ever wished wedding planning came with a guidebook and a supportive team cheering you on, this is your place. Inside the Wedding Duo Membership, you’ll get instant access to all our videos, templates, timelines, music planners, curated playlists, shopping lists, and weekly live meetups where you can ask us anything in real time. It’s everything you need to plan with confidence, stay organized, and finally feel like your wedding vision is within reach.
Get access to everything you need to effortlessly plan your big day for just $27 a month.


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